Just got a chance to check my cell phone and lo and behold there was a lengthy message from S, apologizing profusely and begging my forgiveness for being such a dick (uh yeah, no such luck pal) and how he's a bastard when he drinks heavily (can we say go to AA?) and how he can't understand why Todd felt the need to pick me up and bring me to the bar when it was "guy's night" (umm I think with hindsight on my side, I know why he picked me up! oops!). After much groveling/mumbling he finally hangs up. I'm thinking he hasn't talked to Todd yet today, and I'm thinking there might be a recant on this message! I wish with all my might that there was some way for me to post this message because it truly needs to be heard to be believed. Maybe I'll transcribe it over the weekend if I have time.