Well I just got a tearful phone call from my friend Cr. She and her boyfriend have broken up again, maybe for good this time. The last time they broke up it was because she wanted to date someone else. She kissed this someone else before she broke it off with her bf...this kiss and the month that she spent with the someone else comes up all the time randomly in explosive outbursts from the boyfriend--ex. They could be having a nice, quiet dinner and all of the sudden he'll ask, "Did you ever make this mean for HIM??" . He obviously cannot get over this trust issue, and I'm not saying that I blame him, however, he can't continually verbally abuse my friend for the rest of their lives. It's either let it go, or let her go.
Today, it came to a head when he punched a hole in the ceiling. She called her mom and I, and we both said the same thing--Get out of that house, now! I am now getting ready because we're going to cry our eyes out over some beer, and shots-lotsa shots! It's a good thing I'm on vacation, because tonight is going to be very messy. I'm just happy I can walk to the bar!